Sunday, January 24, 2010

The blasphemy

Someone once told me that to talk about trust in a relationship is "blasphemous".

Because trust, like all things sacred, is an intangible bond shared between close souls - friends, spouses, families, and so forth.

I suppose the reason why she said this was simply because when two start talking about the issue of trust, then it becomes obvious that a crack exists because why would anyone talk about the issue if it's not an issue?

Because it is...it is an issue.

So when this "blasphemy" is committed, what happens then? Everything goes downhill? Or you ignore it and maybe it'll slowly go away...

...and resurface some other day.


2 comments:

DL said...

Don't forget to look at things with a half fill glass instead of a half empty one. To see it as blasphemy is focusing on e negative, the empty. Where is e hope? Where is e view of half full glass, that things can be made better? To be able to talk about things is facing e issue n having e hope to attempt to fix it. Not in denial, not to run. For better or worse, at least u've given it a shot, u've given it ur best. No regrets.

karrot22 said...

Yup! No regrets and I've been happy now. :) Just pensive at times, but not sad. :)